Hans Vieden, AKA Bruiser, came to the United States as an exchange student from Germany. Bruiser was so big, everyone wanted him to play on the sports teams. He was always the biggest kid in school, and he knew people would talk about him and his size behind his back. He is suspicious of anyone and developed a very negative attitude. He is very shy and hardly ever says a word. But when he does, you don’t want to be anywhere near him! This negative attitude attracted his friendship with Stanky and his crew. Bruiser is now Stanky’s body guard, which helps Stanky do even more mean things to others. He’s Stanky’s wingman and helps him pull his meanest tricks. Bruiser doesn’t mind being one of Stanky’s Crew because he likes being a follower and not a leader. Bruiser doesn’t say much because of his strong German accent and spends most of his time in the gym pumping iron.
Step 2 – The Poster
Write “I SMELL Good!” at the top of the poster board. Tape or glue the hearts on the construction paper wherever you like. In the blank areas of the poster board, fill in with things you would like in your life. You can cut out pictures from magazines, use real pictures, cartoons, draw your own pictures, use words, letters, numbers, etc. Somewhere in those blank spaces you need to have positive emotions you would like to experience. Examples include: Love, Happiness, Joy, Peace, Courage, Gratitude, etc.
Step 3 – Daily Work |
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Write the days of the week on each of the 7 index cards. Each morning, take out the index card for that day and carry it with you during your day. It does not matter where you go or what you do, just carry it with you all day. Every time a single SWEET SMELLING thought pops up, say “Thank you. Ahhh!” Then make a mark on your index card for that day. You are now tracking your positive or SWEET SMELLING thoughts. I personally love this exercise, and I am sure that you will to. Since what you focus on EXPANDS, having SWEET SMELLING thoughts will bring more SWEET things to you. |
Step 4 – Updating Heart #1
Each night, Start by spraying the fragrance can around in the air close to your poster board. Take a nice breath and say “I SMELL GOOD!” then on the heart you labeled “SWEET SMELLLING Thoughts,” write the day and the number of marks you made on your index card for the day. An example would be: Monday – 8, Tuesday – 13, Wednesday – 18, etc . . .
Step 5 – Updating Heart #2
Next, update the heart labeled “What I Attracted” if any things you put in the blank spaces of your poster board have shown up in your life. Spray the the fragrance again, take a nice breath and say “I SMELL GOOD!” For example, if you put a new phone in the blank space of your poster board and you got one today, then draw an arrow from the heart to the phone and then either draw another picture in the heart or simply write the word “phone.”
Step 6 – Updating Heart #3
Last, update the heart labeled “SWEET Emotions” if you had any really good feelings during the day. Spray the fragrance one more time, take a nice breath and say “I SMELL GOOD!” Draw an arrow from heart #3 to the SWEET Emotion you had today, and then write the emotion on the heart.
Step 7 – Final Step
After a week of doing this exercise everyday, show your poster to your friends, family members, or anyone you would like to. Before you tell them what you are doing, preface it by saying “I SMELL GOOD!” Then explain your new SWEET SMELLING poster.
This is one of my favorite exercises. My family and I do a version of this exercise on New Years Day every year. |
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Step 1 – The Hearts
The first step of this exercise is to cut out 3 large heart shapes from the 3 pages of construction paper. Each heart will represent a different theme:
- Tracking your SWEET SMELLING thoughts
- Items you collect that reinforce your SWEET thoughts
- Positive SWEET emotions you experience as a result of tracking your SWEET SMELLING thoughts.
Now label the 3 hearts, SWEET SMELLING Thoughts, What I Attracted, SWEET Emotions.
In your room, make a chart that has a column for each day of the week and put it up on the wall. It should look like this:
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Now the fun part. Click here for an illustrated example of the Take Out Your STINKING Trash Exercise.
- After entering the total on your chart, take the tally sheet you used that day and rip it into as many small pieces as you have marks for that day. For example, if you had 50 STINKING thoughts that day, tear the paper into exactly 50 pieces.
- Get a plastic container with a lid and fill it with water.
- Dump your torn up STINKING thoughts into the water, put the lid on the container and place in your freezer.
- Each morning, prepare for a new day by getting a clean tally sheet. Then set your frozen container out in the sink to thaw.
- Continue doing this for 7 days. Tally each day’s negative thoughts, tear up the paper into pieces, put the pieces into the thawed container, and stick it back in the freezer overnight.
- You will notice as the days pass, your old negative thoughts will begin to really STINK! Know that’s what they do to your life too!
- On the last night, drain the water and take a big whiff of the STINKING soggy mess. Throw it in the waste bin!
- Now the final step. TAKE OUT YOUR STINKING TRASH!
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